Tobin

need some help-- new job

2007-06-23T01:57:19Z

should i tell my new employer right away about being trans?

should i shave? should i not shave? shit i'm not sure what to do.

pls help.
TW

parental update

2007-06-18T01:42:12Z

they are finally coming around. my dad and i are getting along more then ever. it took two and a half years plus a few extra months to do... but i couldn't be happier that they love me for me.

everyone pray that when i get my blood done in july it comes back okay so i can start T in early august.
i got a couple more chin hairs. i'm happy about that.
thats it for know.

~TW

hey

2007-06-12T21:48:03Z

today is June 12, 2007. i'm stuck in stupid town until the meeting on the 4th wednesday. thats only for a few hours, but at least i'll get to see people. i miss my brothers. my sister and her boyfriend were here for a visit and left earlier today. she saw my therapist and now she's behind my transition. she even called me her little brother. how killer is that??!! i'm hoping to go see Dr. Davey the tuesday after pride if i can find a place to stay for a few extra days. i am looking for employment. It sucks because up here i have to use legal name and shit so its not easy. apparently i pass really well. the binder has helped a lot, but i passed even without it. big shocker to me. in SD i only pass about 60 percent.

went to transpride with alex and the gang like two weeks ago. it was fun but i think could have been much better. maybe next years will grow. i did have fun getting away. and seemed to pass in west hollywood more than not. my chin hairs are growing in again. and the stash is still there. i've gained my confidence back since all the shit happened in may. well thats it for now.

i'm out,
Tobin